“I've come to believe that there exists in the universe something I call "The Physics of The Quest" — a force of nature governed by laws as real as the laws of gravity or momentum. And the rule of Quest Physics maybe goes like this: "If you are brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting (which can be anything from your house to your bitter old resentments) and set out on a truth-seeking journey (either externally or internally), and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue, and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher, and if you are prepared – most of all – to face (and forgive) some very difficult realities about yourself... then truth will not be withheld from you." Or so I've come to believe.”― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

Good morning!Now that we have your attention!This subject can be taboo for many,and yet that is how you all got here ;-)Sex is one of the things that has gotten moremisunderstood as you've become more "civilized".The ancients grasped the deeper meaning of sex,and it's connection to the divine.It is the ultimate sharing and connection of two souls in the physical.Think about it,starting with the kiss.A passionate kiss is the sharing of the breath, the life force.Taking the organ that produces speech, but communicatingwithout words.It is a very intimate act, to share another's breath, and it wouldbehoove you to be conscious of that during your next passionate kiss.Not all sex has the intention of merging two souls,it is purely for physical release, and it generally does notinvolve deep kissing.Orgasm is the ultimate act of surrender while still in the body.Actually, death is THE ultimate act of surrender,and the French call orgasm "la petite mort" the little death.At that precise moment you merge with your own divine nature.It only lasts a moment, but it changes you physically.It can activate your central channel, your kundalini,which ignites that fire in your body, but also your soul.You were created to have and enjoy the pleasure of sex.Remember the deeper meaning of its magic and usethe exchange to surrender and open yourself to your higherdivinity.Remember: Love is the ingredient that creates the true alchemy.

Now that you have forgiven those that have hurt you ;)It is critical that you forgive yourself.That is a much harder taskIt is usually easier to forgive others than it is to allow yourself to feel that same forgivenessIt has to do with trustYou have to forgive yourself for betraying your trust.When you feel you cannot trust your own guidancefor it has led you down dark and twisty pathsForgiveness will shine a new light on those areas of shame and regret.Forgive yourself for poor choices,they were made out of ignorance,If you knew better, and did it anyway, forgiveness does not come easilyFor your mind overrode the whisper of your soul,and you betrayed your best intentions,and feel you cannot be trustedwith your own well-being.Open your heart and dare to feel that hurtthat betrayaland then set it free!You would never withhold forgiveness from a child,even if that child had endangered itself after being warned.You would not continue to say "I told you so"You would not punish incessantlyYou would never remind it daily of its transgressionsYou would not lock it up, denying it the joy and freedom of lifeMost importantly, you would not withhold your love!Love yourself enough to forgive yourself,Love yourself like you would that childknowing that you know better now.It is okay to move with caution,little baby steps, to earn back your trustbut give yourself that giftIt will change your life.